Showing posts with label change. Show all posts
Showing posts with label change. Show all posts

Monday, October 31, 2011

God's not down with the blame game!

As I participated in worship yesterday and as I was listening to the sermon being delivered I thought to myself, "Now this is a sermon from which a blog post could be born."  The scripture about which the minister was preaching was Ezekiel 18:1-9.  Historically it is believed that this text was written during Israel's exile in Babylon after the fall of Jerusalem and before Israel was set free to return to the promised land.  It's probably a time in Israel's history when collectively Israel was feeling sorry for itself.  The collective consciousness of Israel was trying to figure out just how they got to where they were.  Where once they were powerful under the leadership of King David now they were broken and exiled to a foreign land living under the rule of a foreign king. 

The scripture begins with God speaking to Ezekiel giving him directions, telling him the message that is to be relayed to the people. The people believe that their sinfulness is passed down to them from the generations that preceded them.  So you can hear the people saying, "If only our father's and mother's hadn't done what they did, then we wouldn't be punished now for their sins of yesterday."  The scripture records, "The Lord said:  Ezekiel, I hear the people of Israel using the old saying, 'Sour grapes eaten by parents leave a sour taste in the mouths of their children.'  Now tell them that I am the Lord God, and as surely as I live, that saying will no longer be used in Israel.  The lives of the people belong to me--parents as well as children."  [CEV, Ezekiel 18:1-4]  The text continues on telling us that those who sin against God will be punished and those who are not sinners will not be punished.  We are also told that those who turn from their sinfulness will be returned to the grace of God and will have life.  The chapter ends with this: "I will judge each of you for what you've done.  So stop sinning, or else you will certainly be punished.  Give up your evil ways and start thinking pure thoughts.  And be faithful to me! [CEV, Ezekiel 18:30-31a]

No longer is God willing to accept two things:  the first is this, that the collective consciousness of the people of Israel speaks for the individual's responsibilities; the second, the blaming of others for the choices that we make in our own lives.  While God spoke these things to Israel so long ago through Ezekiel they still hold true today.  Let me be candid, there is a pervasiveness in our culture of abdicating our personal responsibility and accountability to the circumstances in which we find ourselves.  I'm a visual thinker and at this point I envision God rolling God's eyes in frustration and disappointment.  Perhaps a look similar to that look of disapproval that we may have received from our elders when we misbehaved as children. 

The truth of the matter is that indeed for many of us we find ourselves in difficult circumstances and situations that may not have been of our own making or choosing.  Yet, history is replete with examples of people who have made the personal choice to overcome those circumstances despite the odds against them.  Many who were born into poverty have through determination and education lifted themselves from that situation.  Many who were born into abusive or addictive families have chosen to overcome the odds that they too would be abusers or addicts.  They have made a choice to seek the help that will give them the courage and the tools to overcome those circumstances. 

Perhaps what God was communicating to Israel and to us is this: as long as we continue to blame someone else for the circumstances in which we find ourselves we will never have the wisdom, insight, determination, or fortitude to overcome them.  We must, in order to overcome, take personal responsibility for our lives.  To have the clean slate from which to grow we must be accountable for the choices that we make.  This is not to say that we have to be alone in this process; this couldn't be farther from the truth.  Consider 12 step recovery groups:  it is companioning that provides the pivotal backbone necessary for recovery.  The first thing one does in recovery after admitting they have a problem is to find strength and companionship in God and others who are recovering.  Much could be learned in our broader society from the relational aspects of 12 step recovery groups. 

Largely in our society, we are mired in the addiction of blaming others for our ills rather than empowered by the victory of assuming personal responsibility and accountability for our lives.  A fundamental shift has occurred that has moved us in the wrong direction spiritually and morally.  We must, each of us as individuals, seek to do what is right and just.  We must, each of us as individuals, claim personal responsibility for our lives and be accountable for the choices that we make.  A place to start is to seek the strength and wisdom that comes from a relationship with God.  Turn to God!  Seek God's forgiveness! 

Friday, October 21, 2011

Who on earth wants to repent?

"From that time Jesus began to proclaim, 'Repent, for the kingdom of heaven has come near.' " [Matt 4:17, NRSV]

We don't hear too much about Jesus calling for the people to repent.  Mostly we hear about the teachings that came as a result of this call to repentance; those teachings that tell us how to put that repentance into practice.  Such as love God and love one another; or if you see someone who is hungry give them food; or if you see someone who needs some clothes give them some of yours.  Then there are the teachings that are the hardest to follow where Jesus tells us to love our enemy; or to forgive not just 7 times but 7 times 70; or to take up our cross and follow him. 

So what does it mean to repent?  In our society we have all sorts of cultural baggage attached to that word.  For many it conjures up images of old tent revivals where the pulpit pounding preacher is yelling at the congregation to repent or end up in hell.  Most of us have seen these scenes portrayed in movies but there are many who have witnessed them in person.  Most of the people I know who've been first hand witnesses don't have very good feelings associated with those memories.  I'm not convinced that Jesus came preaching the 'Hell and brimstone' kind of repentance.

Repent!  Jesus did come preaching repentance.  I personally like the Greek word that is translated as to repent:  metanoia.  This word means to turn, to change, to change from one thing into a new thing.  It's the root word for the word metamorphosis.  This is probably more true to the meaning that Jesus came preaching rather than the 'Hell fire and brimstone' meaning that is seared into our collective memory. 

Jesus came preaching that we are to change, that we are to turn.  Throughout history Jesus has been referred to as the new Adam; the one who came to make right what Adam and Eve had done wrong.  Just what is it that they did?  Of course, they ate the fruit of the tree of Good and Evil.  But isn't it a story about more than that?  They defied God.  They chose to do what they wanted to do because they wanted to do it.  They chose to satisfy themselves over doing the will of God.  Hmmm ... essentially they are the first of a long list of Biblical characters who demonstrate the human propensity for self-centeredness over God-centeredness.  So, when Jesus comes preaching that we are to change, that we are to turn, he's telling us that we are to turn away from self for fulfillment and turn to God.  The changes that we make in our lives are to be changes that put God first rather than self first.  But that's not as easy as it sounds, is it?  Often words can be spoken and written a lot easier than they are to live out.

The first step in this change process, in this process of turning, is to acknowledge to yourself and to God those areas of your life where you haven't put God first.  No matter who you are these exist.  Is it your work, or play, or your family, or relationships, or finances?  It just might be worthwhile to make a written list of these things.  That makes it more concrete.  Ask yourself such questions as:  What are those things in my life that I keep for myself, that I don't want to give to God?  Where in my life am I defying God?  Once you've made that list, give these things over to God and ask for God's help in restoring your life so that God is first.  Here's the thing about repentance:  it's not just a one time thing and then all is right with the world.  We have to keep doing this process over and over again.  Maybe it's just best practice to go through this process on a daily basis to keep the proverbial house in order. 

There's no denying it, this is hard work.  But here's the thing:  Jesus tells us, "Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.  Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.  For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." [Matt. 11:28-30, NRSV]  If you're not an Amish farmer you might not get this idea of being yoked with Jesus.  A yoke is the apparatus that is used to bind two horses or oxen together when plowing a field or hauling a wagon. It enables the two animals to work together in unison so that that work of pulling the plow or hauling the load is shared between the them.  This is a wonderful image if you substitute yourself and Jesus for the animals and imagine you and Jesus together pulling the plow through the fields of life or hauling that heavy load up one of the steep hills of life that we have to traverse.

Repent!  Turn around!  Turn from self and turn to God!